Drip Jesus

Guest Speaker Michael Kraemer

Acts‬ ‭2‬:‭17

“In the last days, God says, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your young men will see visions, your old men will dream dreams.”‭‭

‬Whatever is going on inside of you is eventually going to come out of you.

Luke‬ ‭6‬:‭45

“A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.”‭‭

When life presses you or when things are difficult, or things don’t go your way what comes out of you?

‭‭Acts‬ ‭2‬:‭1‬-‭4‬

“When the day of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place. Suddenly a sound like the blowing of a violent wind came from heaven and filled the whole house where they were sitting. They saw what seemed to be tongues of fire that separated and came to rest on each of them. All of them were filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in other tongues as the Spirit enabled them.”

Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭9‬-‭11‬

‭“After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.”‭‭Acts‬ ‭4‬:‭31‬ ‭“Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!”‭‭

God, we need you to fill us we can’t do it without you.

Holy Spirit will fill us from head to toe, completely saturate us with your Holy Spirit

Church of the Nazarene – East Rock

The Relationship Keys: Loyalty

The deep commitment and willingness it takes to overcome the hardships that sometimes come in relationship.

What if today one of the greatest stands we could take against the enemy in our lives was to cultivate God honoring relationships? That’s exactly what our new teaching series is all about.

Through this series we are committed to seeing God’s emphasis on the importance of our relationships- with family, members of the church, our community and friends

How do we cultivate deeper, stronger, healthier relationships through the challenges we all experience in those relationships?That takes loyalty.

Loyalty- To be faithful, unswerving in allegiance, constant, steadfast, and resolute in relationship

You have heard it said before from someone going through a difficult time “You really find out who your friends are…” That’s the issue of loyalty in real life.‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭18‬:‭24‬‬One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.

There is no real relationship until two people have undergone challenges or hardships together. In those moments, loyalty plants the seeds for growth and fruit through the hardship.

Loyalty is upheld as the foundation of relationships throughout Scripture. Moses and Joshua, David and Jonathan, Jesus, and Mary Magdalene and many more teach about loyalty to God and to each other.

But perhaps the most direct example comes from a woman that walked the earth close to 3000 years ago. They are the words of Ruth to her mother-in-law Naomi.‭‭

Ruth‬ ‭1‬:‭1‬-‭18‬‬

In the days when the judges ruled, there was a famine in the land. So a man from Bethlehem in Judah, together with his wife and two sons, went to live for a while in the country of Moab. The man’s name was Elimelek, his wife’s name was Naomi, and the names of his two sons were Mahlon and Kilion. They were Ephrathites from Bethlehem, Judah. And they went to Moab and lived there. Now Elimelek, Naomi’s husband, died, and she was left with her two sons. They married Moabite women, one named Orpah and the other Ruth. After they had lived there about ten years, both Mahlon and Kilion also died, and Naomi was left without her two sons and her husband. When Naomi heard in Moab that the Lord had come to the aid of his people by providing food for them, she and her daughters-in-law prepared to return home from there. With her two daughters-in-law she left the place where she had been living and set out on the road that would take them back to the land of Judah. Then Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law, “Go back, each of you, to your mother’s home. May the Lord show you kindness, as you have shown kindness to your dead husbands and to me. May the Lord grant that each of you will find rest in the home of another husband.” Then she kissed them goodbye and they wept aloud and said to her, “We will go back with you to your people.” But Naomi said, “Return home, my daughters. Why would you come with me? Am I going to have any more sons, who could become your husbands? Return home, my daughters; I am too old to have another husband. Even if I thought there was still hope for me—even if I had a husband tonight and then gave birth to sons— would you wait until they grew up? Would you remain unmarried for them? No, my daughters. It is more bitter for me than for you, because the Lord’s hand has turned against me!” At this they wept aloud again. Then Orpah kissed her mother-in-law goodbye, but Ruth clung to her. “Look,” said Naomi, “your sister-in-law is going back to her people and her gods. Go back with her.” But Ruth replied, “Don’t urge me to leave you or to turn back from you. Where you go I will go, and where you stay I will stay. Your people will be my people and your God my God. Where you die I will die, and there I will be buried. May the Lord deal with me, be it ever so severely, if even death separates you and me.” When Naomi realized that Ruth was determined to go with her, she stopped urging her.

As we begin to look at Naomi and Ruth’s relationship, we see that they had endured a lot together. Their bond of loyalty had grown through immense suffering and grief together.

As Naomi plans to return to her home, she knows there is no prospect for her daughter-in-law’s there. Naomi urges them to leave behind their relationship in favor of a better more secure life.

Orpah concedes to her mother-in-laws request, but Ruth stands on loyalty. It’s the glue that holds us together in God honoring relationship.

Loyalty for Ruth represented a significant and life changing sacrifice. There was hardly any guarantee that it would all work out, but Ruth couldn’t forsake her relationship or her commitment to Naomi. That’s because her commitment to loyalty flowed from her character. Faithful and loyal love was at the core of who she was.

We can all recognize within ourselves that we want a friend like Ruth or even Sheriff Andy Taylor.

Someone who sticks with us, even when there’s nothing in it for them.

But the call of loyalty for us today- our call and commission as followers of Jesus- is to BE that friend, to be an Andy or a Ruth, or to be more exact- to be Christ like in our loyalty to others.

Loyalty is the essence, the character of God’s faithful love.

We experience the faithful, loyal, steadfast love of God through Christ Jesus- Friends loyal love is the message of the gospel.

‭‭John‬ ‭13‬:‭34‬-‭35‬‬“

A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

To be loyal, faithful, un-swerving, constant and steadfast in relationship is to love out of the very nature of Christ within us.Loyalty flows from our Character, from our heart transformed by grace.

Why do I need to stick it out in relationship- Why should I put myself through that? Because we have been loved by an immeasurable and loyal love, and we are commanded to love others with that same love.

The way we engage relationship is to be so radical, so loyal, that the world knows we are different- that we belong to Christ. That’s loyalty. That’s honoring God in relationship, especially when the going gets tough.

Lord, give me the courage (and conviction) to love the people in my life with your selfless and loyal love.

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Church of the Nazarene – Harrisonburg

The Relationship Keys: Selflessness

The model of Jesus is the laid down life.

Having the right keys is important, isn’t it?

Just talk to someone who has been locked out of their house or who locked their keys in their car.

Throughout the month of February is a focus for us on relationships.

What is the key to healthy, life-giving, God honoring relationships?

We’re not talking about car keys or house keys, but rather, “relationship keys”.

Today’s focus is selflessness.

Some foundational truths:

1. Relationships matter – in fact, you wouldn’t be wrong to say relationships are everything!

2. Relationships are hard – there seem to be fewer examples in our lives of healthy relationships.

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭22‬:‭37‬-‭39

‬‬Jesus replied: “ ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’

This is the heart of God: your relationships matter!

The way you love the people around you matters.

‭‭John‬ ‭13‬:‭34‬-‭35

‬‬“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”‭‭

John‬ ‭15‬:‭10‬-‭13

‬‬If you keep my commands, you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commands and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete. My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.‭‭

Philippians‬ ‭2‬:‭3‬-‭8

‬‬Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross!

1. Selfless love means it’s not about me.

-We tend to want what we want, and we expect others to care about our needs and wants.

-In Godly relationships we choose to take the focus off ourselves and look to those we love.

-Imagine what a relationship would be like if both people in the relationship cared about the other’s needs over their own?

Important Disclaimer:

This does not mean that we are to be doormats, allowing someone to hurt us. Some of us have been a part of unhealthy, co-dependent relationships. We are grateful for the important work of counselors and mental health professionals that help us walk through the healing from destructive relationships. At COTN, the ministry of Celebrate Recovery also helps us find handles in creating healthy boundaries in our relationships. More information is available at cotnaz.org/celebraterecovery.

2. Selfless love means sacrifice which means selfless loves take courage.

-It is easy to be selfish, it is always much harder to demonstrate selfless love.-Love is not the same in all our relationships. We don’t love our spouses in the same way we love our children. We don’t love our co-workers in the same way we love our in-laws. But we love nonetheless. And love is sacrifice which means it always take courage.

-The selfless love of Jesus takes courage.

The bottom line:

The model of Jesus is the laid down life.

Scriptures for Further Study/Reflection:

1 Corinthians 13

Proverbs 18:24

Romans 12:10

Romans 12:16

Romans 14:19

1 Corinthians 12:25

Galatians 5:13

Galatians 6:2

Ephesians 4:2, 32

Ephesians 5:21

Colossians 3:13

Colossians 3:16

1 Thessalonians 4:18

Hebrews 10:24

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Church of the Nazarene – East Rock

The Relationship Keys: Empathy

Empathy acts on an attitude of selflessness and sacrifice

What if today one of the greatest stands we could take against the enemy in our lives was to cultivate God honoring relationships? That’s exactly what our new teaching series is all about.

It’s focused on God honoring relationships that are an offensive attack against the enemy of our souls.

I want to welcome you back to our teaching series Relationship Keys

Through this series we are committed to seeing God’s emphasis on the importance of our relationships- with family, members of the church, our community and friends

As we continue today, we are taking the next step or the next key in our relationships. That key is Empathy.

Empathy is the relationship key that acts on an attitude of selflessness and sacrifice

Part of growing God honoring relationships is to feel what others are feeling, too walk in their shoes, and respond in compassion.‭‭

Colossians‬ ‭3‬:‭12‬-‭14

‬‬Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

Paul’s first relationship key- “clothe yourself with compassion.”

Compassion there is a unique word- it’s very close to what Jesus felt in Matthew 9Some translations have “sympathetic”, “Heartfelt compassion” or I like the old KJV “Bowels of Mercy.”

What these translations are pointing to, is not just a kind response, it’s not a smile and nod until they leave you alone, but a compassionate response of love from deep within our being.

Empathy is a sacred space

Empathy fuels connection- sympathy drives dis-connection.

Sympathy keeps a safe and comfortable distance, but Empathy has the courage to get close.

‭‭Luke‬ ‭10‬:‭30‬-‭37

‬‬In reply Jesus said: “A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, when he was attacked by robbers. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him and went away, leaving him half dead. A priest happened to be going down the same road, and when he saw the man, he passed by on the other side. So too, a Levite, when he came to the place and saw him, passed by on the other side. But a Samaritan, as he traveled, came where the man was; and when he saw him, he took pity on him. He went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine. Then he put the man on his own donkey, brought him to an inn and took care of him. The next day he took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper. ‘Look after him,’ he said, ‘and when I return, I will reimburse you for any extra expense you may have.’ “Which of these three do you think was a neighbor to the man who fell into the hands of robbers?” The expert in the law replied, “The one who had mercy on him.” Jesus told him, “Go and do likewise.”

To show what God honoring love looked like- Jesus told a story about empathy and compassion.

The empathy we’re talking about – the compassion Jesus calls for – crosses any boundary you can think of.

Through empathy we can open the door of God’s compassion and grace. We can drive connection.

Will you commit to seeing that happen in your relationships?

Our response this week is simple- a simple prayer- Lord, give me the courage (and conviction) to love the people in my life with your selfless love.

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February 5: Harrisonburg Campus

Three chairs

Generations- the amount of time to have a grandfather and grandmother, to have a son or daughter to then have a grandson or granddaughter.

God speaks through generations

God may want to speak to us today about the kind of generation we are

The place of chairs in our lives

But if you refuse to serve the Lord, then choose today whom you will serve. Would you prefer the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates? Or will it be the gods of the Amorites in whose land you now live? But as for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.””‭‭Joshua‬ ‭24‬:‭15‬“After that generation died, another generation grew up who did not acknowledge the Lord or remember the mighty things he had done for Israel.”‭‭Judges‬ ‭2‬:‭10‬ ‭Chairs define our lives

Three chairs- represents three types of people

The kingdom of Heaven is like these three chairs

1. Commitment – You love God with your whole heart he becomes your everything.

2. Compromise- You know the word but there are other things in your life that are more important than God

3. Conflict – You’re at odds with God

What chair are you sitting in?

Wherever we are seated the next generation usually sits one seat down not the other way around.

No matter what seat you are in today you can change seats“

The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying life.”‭‭

John‬ ‭10‬:‭10

“Not everyone who calls out to me, ‘Lord! Lord!’ will enter the Kingdom of Heaven. Only those who actually do the will of my Father in heaven will enter.”‭‭

Matthew‬ ‭7‬:‭21

‬ ‭“My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.”‭‭

Galatians‬ ‭2‬:‭20

‬ ‭“Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.”

‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭33

‬ ‭“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him.”

‭‭Romans‬ ‭12‬:‭1‬ ‭

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart; do not depend on your own understanding. Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.”

‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭3‬:‭5‬-‭6‬ ‭

“Then, calling the crowd to join his disciples, he said, “If any of you wants to be my follower, you must give up your own way, take up your cross, and follow me. If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake and for the sake of the Good News, you will save it.

”‭‭Mark‬ ‭8‬:‭34‬-‭35‬

‭No life is more secure than a life that is surrendered into Gods hands

There is a chair for everybody

There is an unlimited supply of commitment chairs.