PREPARE US FOR TODAY’S TOPIC-TURN TO HUMOR

NATE BARGATZE VIDEO

• 20’S IM DOWN LETS GO
• 30’S MAYBE
• 40’S NOT GOING- MAD YOU ASKED
• 50’S – WHAT HAPPENS NOW?

FORMER EMPLOYER- STERNLY AND SERIOUISLY

  “YOU SHOW ME A MAN OVER 50 AND WILL SHOW YOU A LONELY MAN”  (DON’T KNOW YET MYSELF)

• 4^TH WEEK IN A SERIES EVERYDAY FAITH

TOOLS IN A TOOLBOX- THAT HELP OUR FAITH

WEEK 1: PRAYER- MAY BE THE ACTUAL TOOLBOX

WANT STALE BORING LIFELESS PRAYER LIFE?

A TOOL IS A PRAYER JOURNAL

WEEK 2: GODS WORD- INGEST AND INVEST

READ IT- LISTEN TO IT- PRAY IT

WEEK 3: SERVICE- JESUS TAKES OFF HIS TITLE (TEACHER/RABBI- PICKS UP A TOWEL)

WE ARE CALLED NOT TO THROW IN THE TOWEL- BUT BE PEOPLE OF THE TOWEL.

TODAY- A FOURTH TOOL IN THE TOOLBOX TODAY

TODAY IS A POOL PARTY                (8-10)

• SOME NO INTEREST IN GOING TO A POOL PARTY.
• DON’T LIKE WATER- DON’T WANT TO GET WET
• SOME WEAR BATHING SUIT- THEY NOT GETTING IN

• SOME BRING THEIR SUITS
• SOME COME WITH A TOWEL FOR LOOKS
• SOME PUT FEET IN- SOME DIVE IN
• SOME COME- NOT DRESSED FOR IT
• SOME COME- SOMEBODY MADE THEM

TOTAL ATTENDANCE FOR  

2024 NBA SEASON WAS 22 MILLION PEOPLE

2024 NFL SEASON WAS 18 MILLION PEOPLE

2024  MLB SEASON 71 MILLION PEOPLE

2024 NHL SEASON 23 MILLION PEOPLE

125 MILLION PEOPLE ATTEND CHURCH EVERY WEEKEND

ACTS 2:42

  42. And they devoted themselves to coming together whenever it was convenient on their very busy calendars. They came together, not altogether on time, but at different times.   43. They came some early, they came some right when the service started, many came late, after the service started.

ACTS 2:44

  44. They walked into an air-conditioned building and found a comfortable seat. Some wished the back rows were further back. They nodded to the other people on their row, and some offered a smile, but they hardly looked at each other again.

ACTS 2:45

  45. Instead, they fixed their eyes on a stage. They stood, and some people sang. Then they sat and watched and listened to someone speak for a while.

ACTS 2:46

  46. Until they stood to sing one more time, after which they peeled back some strange cellophane to uncover a small snack.  As soon as they were finished eating and drinking, they got out of there as fast as possible in order to beat the traffic.

 ACTS 2:47

  47. Then they waited to do it again the next week, or whenever it would work well with their schedule. And they called it church.

THIS – NOT IN THE BIBLE – THIS IS NOT ACTS 2:42-47

THIS IS NOT WHAT CHRIST PLANS TO RETURN FOR

YET- THIS IS HOW MANY PEOPLE EXPERIENCE CHURCH

 ACTS 2:42

⁴² They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. 

⁴³ Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. ⁴⁴ All the believers were together and had everything in common. 

ACTS 2:44

⁴⁵ They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. ⁴⁶ Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, 

ACTS 2:47

  47. praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.

RIGHT BEFORE THIS:

⁸ But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.”

• ¹⁴ They all joined together constantly in prayer,

 QUOTE

  “OUR RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH OTHER IS THE CRITERION THE WORLD USES TO JUDGE WHETHER OUR MESSAGE IS TRUTHFUL- CHRISTIAN COMMUNITY IS THE FINAL APOLOGETIC”

   FRANCIS SCHAEFFER

 KOINONIA – VERSE 42-FELLOWSHIP

⁴² They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.

• COMMUNION
• FELLOWSHIP
• CONTRIBUTE- CONTRIBUTING

NOT JUST A REGULAR – CASUAL NOD- FIST BUMP

• WHATS UP  –   SMILE- WAVE- SMALL TALK
•   FELLOWSHIP
• MUTUALLY BELONG/ SHARE
• JOINT PARTICIPATION

SO THAT’S WHAT IT IS:

                                     SO WHY IS THIS A MUST?

 PSALM 133:1

1. “HOW GOOD AND PLEASANT IT IS WHEN BROTHERS LIVE TOGETHER IN UNITY”

KOINONIA IS ESSENTIAL BECAUSE IT FOSTERS UNITY AND SPIRITUAL MATURITY

• GOD COMMANDED IT AND DESIGNED IT
• GENESIS 1:    CREATED FOR COMMUNITY
• THE ENEMY HAS 2 GOALS: FEAR/ISOLATION

IT’S THE NUMBER ONE FORM OF PUNISHMENT

VALLEY PRAYER BREAKFAST

• VALLEY PRAYER BREAKFAST
• RICKY BOLDEN/LEE CORDER
• SERVING TOGETHER ON CAPITOL HILL
• THEY SHARED ABOUT WHAT FRIENDSHIP- FELOWSHIP LOOKS LIKE FOR THEM
• 2 VERY DIFF PEOPLE- VERY DIFF ENVIRONMENTS

JOHN 13:34-35

  34. “A NEW COMMAND I GIVE YOU: LOVE ONE ANOTHER. (PERIOD) AS I HAVE LOVED YOU, SO YOU MUST LOVE ONE ANOTHER. BY THIS WILL EVERYONE KNOW THAT YOU ARE MY DISCIPLES, IF YOU LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

RICKY SAID

  HE DOESN’T SAY THIS IS HOW THEY WILL KNOW YOU ARE MY DISCIPLES IF YOU LOVE LOST PEOPLE

   HE DOESN’T SAY THIS IS HOW THEY WILL KNOW YOU ARE MY DISCIPLES IF YOU TOLERATE PEOPLE

   DOESN’T SAY “THIS IS HOW THEY WILL KNOW YOU ARE MY DISCIPLES IF YOU DO GOOD THINGS”

 ECCLESIASTES 4:9-10

  “TWO ARE BETTER THAN ONE, BECAUSE THEY HAVE A GOOD RETURN FOR THEIR LABOR. IF EITHER OF THEM FALLS DOWN, ONE CAN HELP THE OTHER UP. BUT PITY ANYONE WHO FALLS AND HAS NO ONE TO HELP THEM UP.

 LEGOS PICTURE

• 2014 – 60 BILLION LEGO PIECES PRODODUCED YEARLY
• As of 2024, over 1.1 TRILLION LEGO PIECES produced.
• ENOUGH FOR EVERY PERSON 140 pieces each
• LEGO PIECES ARE PRODUCED FOR 1 PURPOSE

TO CONNECT TO ANOTHER PIECE.

DON’T LEAVE- WE ARE GOING TO CELEBRATE IN COMMUNION WHEN WE ARE DONE

BUT I/WE JUST WANT YOU RIGHT IN THIS SERVICE

• TAKE 5 MINUTES TO JUST BE WITH OTHERS
• MAYBE WE SHOULD TAKE 10 RESOPECT INTROVERTS
• TIMER ON THE SCREEN
• 4 QUESTIONS CAN USE WITH SOMEONE DON’T KNOW
• MAY NOT NEED ANY- BUT LETS ACTUALLY INTENTIONALLY FELLOWSHIP

 KOINONIA CURIOSITY       

1. HAVE YOU EVER SMUGGLED FOOD INTO A MOVIE THEATER?
2. WHAT RESTAURANT WOULD YOU EAT AT ONCE A WEEK THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
3. WHEN YOU WERE 12 YEARS OLD, WHAT DID YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GREW UP?
4. WHAT IS ONE WORD YOU WOULD USE TO DESCRIBE JESUS?

KOINONIA- FELLOWSHIP/COMMUNION/CONTRIBUTION

WHY? BECAUSE IT’S A BIBLICAL MANDATE

WE ARE WIRED FOR COMMUNITY

• OUR BODIES NEED IT- WARMTH FLOWS
• EVEN PENGUINS GET IT
  
  

 VIDEO                 

• THEIR INSTINCT IS TO PROTECT ONE ANOTHER
• TAKE TURNS AND PUT SOME INSIDE WHILE OUTSIDE ONES ABSORB THE BRUNT OF ELEMENTS

https://www.bible.com/events/49436421

Church of the Nazarene – East Rockingham Campus

Everyday Faith Part 4

Fellowship every day.

Everyday Faith

Our goal over the next few weeks will be to understand and grow in the practices that help us live out our faith.

Just like we brush our teeth, comb our hair, we change our clothes, we take a shower. Our faith life has those same daily things we need to be doing to be healthy and growing to be like Jesus.

Things like reading the bible, serving, fellowship and community, and humility. Each week we are going to focus on one of those daily practices for our faith life.

Today we are going to look at the everyday faith practice of fellowship or living life in community.

You cannot read the scriptures, especially the life of Jesus, and come away with a vision of Christianity that is lived in isolation or apart from other believers.

The everyday living out of our faith, as the bible describes it, is a life lived in fellowship with other believers.

And this is not just a new friend group or social club we are supposed to join. The relationships we are to have with other Christians is a deep and meaningful that is rooted in Christ. It’s a relationship or community marked by love and mutual care. It’s marked by a sense of purpose and calling for Christ in our world.

That’s the difference between another group of buddies and true fellowship with other believers. These relationships are an essential part of our everyday faith.

As you read about the life of Jesus in the New Testament, you will see that he lived in constant fellowship with others.

All (4) of the gospels record Jesus calling disciples to follow after him. This tight knit group of 12 disciples did everyday things together.

Their individual stories came together so much so that 2000 years later we just say “the disciples” like they are one.

Friends, that’s life together with Jesus at the center. All of our diverse and unique stories and experiences come together as one with Jesus at the center.

John 13:34-35

“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.”

We might with that Jesus said “Yall, like each other and try to get along.” but he doesn’t. He says, “Love one another”

Friends the boldness and extravagance of this command comes from the reality of how Jesus loves us.

His love is the standard for our relationships.

Acts 2:42-47

They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer. Everyone was filled with awe at the many wonders and signs performed by the apostles. All the believers were together and had everything in common. They sold property and possessions to give to anyone who had need. Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.

Together they were devoted to the teachings of the Apostles, fellowship and breaking bread together, and prayer. Together they sacrificed to meet each others needs.

Every day they worshipped together, they ate together, and experienced the blessing of God, together.

Friends, that’s what life together is about, this is what the church has been about from the beginning.

John 17:20-23

“My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.

As Jesus looks beyond the cross, down through the generations of people who would come to believe in him.

He doesn’t pray for nice church buildings. He doesn’t pray for full offering plates.He doesn’t that they would be safe and happy. He prays that they would be one.

He prays that believers would experience such unity and togetherness, such value in relationship it would be like Jesus’ own relationship to the Father. That’s what Jesus prays over you, and over me.

How do we take a step towards life together like we see in the New Testament?

I think for many of us, the first thing we have to do is take Jesus at his word that life together is an essential part of following him.

We commit to it, then we commit to do it.

Finally, we enjoy it!

Good morning, and Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible women in our lives— whether you’re a mother by birth, by choice, by mentorship, or simply by being a loving presence. Today we celebrate you—for serving us, teaching us, and praying for us. An unknown author said this, “In every unseen Act of Love, a mother mirrors the hands of Christ washing feet.” Since it’s Mother’s Day, I want to lovingly “pick on” us ladies for just a moment… because I am one. There’s an old saying that goes: “A man builds a house, but a woman makes it a home.” And let’s be honest—many of us excel in the “making it a home” department. Leave me alone in Hobby Lobby for more than ten minutes, and chances are, I’m coming home with something to make our house just a little more “homey.” Let me give you a few examples: 1. Throw Pillows Anyone else have a thing for throw pillows? Brian, my husband, once calculated that it takes him an extra 80 seconds each day to put the decorative pillows back on the bed when he makes it. He did the math—because of course he did—and here’s what he came up with: • That’s 8 hours a year just spent fluffing and arranging pillows. • And over our 23 years of marriage, that adds up to more than 186 hours—that’s over a full week of his life just moving pillows! He says they’re pointless. I say they make the bed look cozy. And I’m not even going to mention the throw pillows on the couch, in the guest room, or the holiday throw pillow situation. Christmas is next-level around our house when it comes to the decorative pillows. 2. Decorative Towels There was a time in our marriage when I had decorative towels in the bathrooms—not to be touched. They were purely for aesthetic purposes. Brian and the kids couldn’t stand it. “Why have a towel that you can’t use?” they’d ask. Their purpose was supposed to be functional, but I had reassigned them to just look pretty and impress guests. These are silly examples, but they point to something true about the heart of a woman: we have a God-given ability to create, nurture, and elevate our spaces and our people —to turn ordinary moments into meaningful ones.  

Today, we’re going to look at someone who did exactly that—Jesus. At the Last Supper, He didn’t decorate the room, but He did something even more powerful. He took off His robe, picked up a towel, and redefined what it means to lead, to love, and to serve. Stand with me as we read the Word of God in John 13:1-17 ” Before the Passover celebration, Jesus knew that his hour had come to leave this world and return to his Father. He had loved his disciples during his ministry on earth, and now he loved them to the very end.[a] 2 It was time for supper, and the devil had already prompted Judas,[b] son of Simon Iscariot, to betray Jesus. 3 Jesus knew that the Father had given him authority over everything and that he had come from God and would return to God. 4 So he got up from the table, took off his robe, wrapped a towel around his waist, 5 and poured water into a basin. Then he began to wash the disciples’ feet, drying them with the towel he had around him. 6 When Jesus came to Simon Peter, Peter said to him, “Lord, are you going to wash my feet?” 7 Jesus replied, “You don’t understand now what I am doing, but someday you will.” 8 “No,” Peter protested, “you will never ever wash my feet!” Jesus replied, “Unless I wash you, you won’t belong to me.” 9 Simon Peter exclaimed, “Then wash my hands and head as well, Lord, not just my feet!” 10 Jesus replied, “A person who has bathed all over does not need to wash, except for the feet,[c] to be entirely clean. And you disciples are clean, but not all of you.” 11 For Jesus knew who would betray him. That is what he meant when he said, “Not all of you are clean.” 12 After washing their feet, he put on his robe again and sat down and asked, “Do you understand what I was doing? 13 You call me ‘Teacher’ and ‘Lord,’ and you are right, because that’s what I am. 14 And since I, your Lord and Teacher, have washed your feet, you ought to wash each other’s feet. 15 I have given you an example to follow. Do as I have done to you. 16 I tell you the truth, slaves are not greater than their master. Nor is the messenger more important than the one who sends the message. 17 Now that you know these things, God will bless you for doing them.” What a powerful and intimate moment we just read. Before we unpack the towel Jesus put on, let’s pause and remember what we’ve been building together over the last few weeks with our “Everyday Faith” series. We started with Prayer Every Day—because communication with God is the foundation of relationship with Him. Pastor Kevin challenged us to not just pray when we’re desperate or need something, but to build a daily rhythm of prayer: praising God, seeking His will, and listening to His voice. Then we added Scripture Every Day—because we can’t follow God if we don’t know His Word. We’ve been learning that daily time in Scripture doesn’t have to be hours long or overly complicated, but it does have to be consistent. Reading, meditating, and applying God’s Word strengthens our faith and directs our steps. This week, we’re adding another tool to our spiritual toolbox: Service Every Day. If prayer connects us vertically to God, and Scripture feeds us spiritually, then service puts our faith into action horizontally—it blesses others. It’s where the inward transformation we’re experiencing begins to show outwardly. Service Every Day isn’t about adding another burden to your schedule. It’s about adopting a posture of humility and readiness. It’s waking up with this mindset: “Lord, show me who I can serve today.” That might be big or small—praying with a co-worker, writing a note to encourage someone, doing the dishes without being asked, volunteering at church, or just pausing to listen when someone needs to talk. It’s choosing to wear the towel Jesus wore—not once a year, not just on Sundays—but every day. Jesus, fully aware that His time had come… knowing the suffering ahead… knowing that one would betray Him, another would deny Him, and the rest would scatter— He still chose to kneel. To serve. To love. This is the last thing that Jesus does for His disciples before heading to the cross. He took off His robe—something that signified position and honor—and instead, He wrapped a towel around his waist. And in doing so, He showed us what true service looks like. That towel wasn’t just a piece of cloth. It became a symbol—a symbol of who He is, and how He calls us to live. So let’s walk through what Jesus really put on that night… BRIAN, I have linen “towels” with each of these words on them. I was thinking of starting the message with the towels draped around my neck, then taking them off one by one and hanging them on a quilt-rack-type stand. Towel of: I. Humility • Jesus, fully aware of His divine authority, chose to perform the task of the lowliest servant. • He stooped down to wash the disciples’ feet—an act that in Jewish culture was reserved for the lowest of the household servants. A. The Feet Were Disgusting • People wore sandals while walking dirt roads. • Their feet were filthy—dusty, cracked, calloused. • Roads were filled with animal manure and waste—an unsanitary, unpleasant combination. B. Cultural Context: Hebrew Hospitality • Foot washing was a sign of hospitality. • A servant would typically wash the feet of guests upon arrival. • It was not a glamorous act; it was expected, routine, and humble. C. Why It Mattered • Meals were not served at high tables with chairs. • Guests reclined on the floor, leaning on one arm and eating with the other. • Dirty feet would be close to someone’s face and food—so washing feet was both hygienic and respectful • They all knew feet washing had to happen, but no one stood up to do it except Jesus! • Jesus was both host and servant at the Last Supper. • He led by example—His authority didn’t exempt Him from service. D. No One Was Beneath Him • Jesus was both host and servant that night • Jesus consistently elevated those others called “the least of these.” • He demonstrated that greatness in the Kingdom of God is marked by service, not status. • In this moment, He chose to serve those who would: ◦ Deny Him (Peter), ◦ Abandon Him (the others), ◦ And even betray Him (Judas). Towel of…… III. Love • Jesus demonstrated a love that went beyond cultural norms and human expectations. • By washing His disciples’ feet, He showed a love that taught, humbled, and restored. A. Different Types of Love in Scripture 1. 2. Philia – Brotherly love, close friendship Storge – Family love 3. Eros – Romantic, passionate love 4. Agape – Selfless, sacrificial, unconditional love B. Agape Love • Agape is the highest form of love—a choice, not just a feeling. • Jesus embodied Agape love by: ◦ Serving others with humility ◦ Choosing to love despite rejection and betrayal ◦ Demonstrating a love the disciples had never encountered before Towel of IV. Obedience • Jesus’ act of foot washing was also one of obedience—to the Father’s will and to His mission on earth. A. Serving Humanity • His whole life modeled service: healing the sick, feeding the hungry, raising the dead. • Washing feet pointed to the ultimate service He would soon offer—dying on the cross. B. Foreshadowing the Cross • Just as He lowered Himself to wash their feet, He would soon lower Himself to suffer and die. • Philippians 2:8 “ –And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross!” C. Submission to the Father’s Plan • Jesus didn’t serve for recognition; He served in obedience. • Even when faced with betrayal and death, His commitment did not waver. D. Call to Follow • His obedience is not just to be admired—but imitated. • We are called to serve with the same posture of humility, selflessness, love, and obedience. Jesus washing the disciples feet wasn’t suggesting the were equal, Instead He was demonstrating what Godly leadership looks like. Jesus defines greatness in terms of service not power. Who Should We Serve? If Jesus—the Son of God, the Savior of the world—chose to kneel, take up a towel, and serve, then we must ask ourselves: Who are we called to serve? It begins at home, grows in our church, and stretches out into the world. 1. Serve Your Family The very first place God calls us to serve is in our own homes. When relationships begin to suffer, it’s often because we’ve forgotten our first assignment: to serve one another. When serving stops, selfishness takes over. But when we choose to serve—intentionally, humbly, sacrificially—healing begins. Hearts soften. Conflicts settle. Love becomes real again. Husbands and Wives When a husband stops serving his wife—or a wife stops serving her husband— distance grows. But when service is present, love grows deeper. For nearly 23 years of marriage — yes, 23, we’re practically vintage — I’ve woken up to a perfect cup of coffee with homemade flavored foamed milk delivered to my bedside at 7:30 a.m. Every. Single. Morning. My husband serves me in this sacred, caffeine fueled ritual because he knows my love language is acts of service, and that it makes me feel seen and loved. Now, he’d probably tell you that making sure I have coffee is more of a public service than anything else. But hey, I’m not complaining! That’s service—quiet, consistent, and meaningful. Wives, serving your husband doesn’t mean losing your strength. It means loving him in the way he feels most cared for—not just the way you prefer to give. Children and Parents Kids—serving your parents isn’t just about obeying rules. It’s about honor. It’s about showing love by pitching in, being respectful, and showing gratitude. Parents—your children are watching you. The way you serve your family teaches them how to love others. Siblings and In-Laws Serving a sibling might mean choosing kindness over competition. And yes—even the in-laws. Sometimes the hardest people to serve are the ones we didn’t choose. But Jesus didn’t just serve those who were easy to love—He served everyone, even those who didn’t understand or appreciate Him. A true servant doesn’t just serve out of obligation—they learn how to love the people around them in the way they feel most valued. Not sure how you’re doing? Ask your family. And be ready to really listen. As I was writing this sermon, I asked Brian, “Do I serve you well?” Ask “what ways can I serve you better?” A servant not only serves, but knows how the one they love is best served. 2. Serve the Church Billy Graham once said: “The highest form of worship is the worship of unselfish Christian service. The greatest form of praise is the sound of consecrated feet seeking out the lost and helpless.” Church, the needs are great—and our mission is clear: We are a church transformed by God to bring hope to others through Christ. I see lives being transformed in this place every week, and it’s beautiful. But that’s only half the mission. Now we must bring hope to others. Our pastors and leaders are serving faithfully—but they can’t do it alone. We need you. Your hands. Your time. Your heart. There are so many great ministries going on here at COTN: • Kid’s Harbor • Hope Distributed (Food Bank) • Children’s Ministry • Youth Ministry • Worship & Tech • Outreach • Celebrate Recovery And the list goes on… Jesus said, “The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few.” We want an incredible VBS, a strong kids ministry, powerful worship, and life-changing outreach—but those things only happen when we serve together. That means being willing to change diapers in the nursery, play games and teach Bible stories to preschoolers, sit with a group of 3rd graders and ask about their week, serve snacks, wipe down tables, or just show up consistently to remind a child they are seen, known, and loved by Jesus. It means jumping in with the youth ministry—showing up onSunday nights, leading a small group, cheering students on at their games or performances, and being a safe, steady adult who listens without judgment. It means supporting our worship and tech teams—not just singing or playing an instrument, but learning how to run slides, set up microphones, work a camera, or show up early to rehearse so someone else can encounter God through music without distraction. We enjoy the ability to stream church online, to hear beautiful worship, to read lyrics on a screen—but someone had to wake up early, Learn how to mix sound, and click the slides to make that happen. It means saying yes to Celebrate Recovery or Outreach teams, where you might serve meals, lead devotionals, greet people with dignity and warmth, or simply sit beside someone walking through addiction, grief, or struggle. It means helping with Hope Distributed—packing food boxes, lifting crates, smiling at families, or praying over someone who wonders how they’ll make it another week. It means serving in hospitality—holding a door, pouring coffee, cleaning up after others, and offering a warm welcome to those who don’t yet know they belong. It means preparing Communion, setting out the bread and juice with care, making sure everything is ready for the congregation to receive the sacred act of remembrance. If you’ve ever had a meaningful communion experience, there’s a team behind it, making it possible. It also means making a meal for a family going through bereavement, offering your love through something as simple and comforting as food, reminding them they’re not alone in their grief. And yes, it even means making sure the bathrooms are stocked with toilet paper and paper towels. If you’ve ever been grateful for a clean restroom on a Sunday morning, there’s a team behind that. The Sunday Facilities Team shows up a bit early and stays a bit after service late, and takes care of the spaces most people never notice—until something’s missing. This isn’t about guilt—it’s about awareness. Everything we love about this church exists because someone picked up a towel. Will you? 3. Serve the Community Jesus didn’t stay within synagogue walls—He walked into homes, villages, and streets. If we want to show the world Jesus, we have to step outside these doors. What does that look like for you? • Volunteer at a local school • Join a community board • Serve at the library • Coach a sports team • Help at a shelter • Show up for a neighbor Let the light of Christ shine in the everyday places people live and work. Let them see Jesus in you. Don’t Throw in the Towel—Put It On Too often, we’re ready to throw in the towel when life gets hard. But Jesus shows us a different way: Put the towel on. Craig Groeschel said: “You can make excuses, or you can make a difference—but you can’t make both.” And here’s the truth: As a pastor, I’ve attended many funerals, and not once have I heard anyone say, “They had the nicest things.” Sure, people mention their successes, and that’s nice, but what truly matters in the legacy we leave behind is how deeply we loved Jesus and how faithfully we served others. The happiest people aren’t the most successful, the wealthiest, or the most famous. They’re the ones who serve others with the most love and humility. Life isn’t measured by what you accomplish or the things you accumulate — it’s about the lives you touch and the difference you make. Invitation and Action Step: As we close, I invite each of you to come forward and take a towel—one towel per family. These towels are not just a symbol, but a reminder of purpose. Once you have your towel, gather into family groups, friend groups, or even just pairs. If you’re here alone today, Pastor Kevin and Ruth (STAFF???) are available to pray with you. In your groups, take a moment to pray and commit to serving your families better, your church better, and your community better. Remember, we all need accountability for our commitments, and this towel will serve as a tangible reminder of those commitments. Think about this: decorative towels are beautiful but often untouched, just there for display. Are we, in our spiritual lives, simply keeping ourselves for special occasions, or are we willing to be used every day for the work of the Kingdom? Self-preservation keeps us untouched, but it also keeps us completely useless. Real servants of Christ get dirty. They are willing to dive in and serve, day after day, no matter the cost. Before you leave today,. On the screen, or in the seat back in front of you, you’ll find a QR code or a paper form. Scan the QR code or fill out the paper form, committing to put on your towel and serve the church. Check off the areas of ministry you would like to know more about. It will only take you 30 seconds, but it will be the first step in making a difference in the Kingdom of God. Let’s act in service today. Come, take your towel, pray, and let’s begin making a lasting impact in our families, church, and community. 

TOOLS For our everyday faith

Good morning ER – I’m Angela Kohl – I am typically found at our HBurg campus –

Happy mothers day!

Since I got the gift of traveling East this mothers day morning – I brought my mom bag and some of tools of my daily life.

 (bible, spoon, prayer journal, mascara, pen, phone

You have some with you as well – let me show you! 

Good morning – wave – now yall give me a big wave back. Now fist bump your neighbor

                What tool was that?  Our hands

Look at someone and give them a smile?

                Whats the tool?

                Yes, a smile!

On 3, everyone say good morning!

                 Yes, your voice

These are all just objects until we put them into action and apply love – then they become tools for service.

We hear the term “serve the Lord” often – an early Old Testament scripture that we think of when we think of serving God is in Joshua 24 verse 15…

                But as for me and my household, …. “we will serve the Lord”

where Joshua is urging, the Israelites to forsake their idols and serve the Lord faithfully. To choose him, to follow him, and act according to His word.

Before heading any further – lets look at a biblical definition of serving

In a biblical context, “serving the Lord” signifies a deep commitment to God, marked by obedience, devotion, and a desire to express love for Him through actions and attitudes. It’s about recognizing God’s authority and responding with a life of love and service, both in personal behavior and in interactions with others. 

Have you ever had questions, fears, or confusion about serving God and others?

                Have you ever asked….

WHY would I do that? WHY do I need the service tool in my tool belt?

Maybe I take this approach because I’m a mama – and there are a lot of questions in my daily life and a lot of them begin with WHY! …..

I also had to chuckle when I landed on the structure of my message –

I have the privilege of working closely with your Pastor – and he loves a good question – so in an effort to bless him we will answer the WHY of SERVICE this morning.

 I’m so glad you asked …. I going to give you 3 reasons this morning – my hope is those 3 will make you hungry to know more and you will pick up our first 2 tools and seek the Lord in Prayer and Scripture to find out more.

Just to give you some context of the the focus and importance of this new tool in scripture- In the NIV there are over 1,100 mentions of service, service, or servant.  (importance and necessity)

(OUR FIRST WHY IS IN FORM OF A QUESTION)

#1  The lord commands us or invites us?

                                Which is it?

                                In the beautiful nature of the Lord – it is both!

Deuteronomy 10:12 says:

“And now, Israel, what does the LORD your God require of you? He requires only that you fear the LORD your God, and live in a way that pleases him, and love him and serve him with all your heart and soul.

(here we see Moses standing on the edge of the promised land with the Israelites – reminding them of Gods faithfulness, expectations, and a call to obedience – He wanted their days ahead to be full of Him)

Colossians 3:23-24

Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, ²⁴ since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. 

(this is final words in the chapter where we find Paul telling the Colossians to put on the new self – TO PUT AWAY THE EARTHLY THINGS and GOES ON TO  give instructions to Christian households)

The Greek word used here for “heart” is “psychē,” which can also be translated as “soul” or “life.” Thus, Paul is calling for a deep, intrinsic commitment to one’s work, suggesting that it should be done with enthusiasm and dedication.

This perspective is transformative because it redefines the purpose and motivation behind our labor.

 In the ancient world, many of Paul’s readers were slaves or servants, working under the authority of human masters. By directing their efforts towards the Lord, Paul elevates their work from mere obligation to an act of worship.

This principle applies universally to all believers, regardless of their occupation or status. Whether one is a teacher, a doctor, a janitor, or a stay-at-home parent, their work is ultimately for the Lord.

In our personal lives, the principle of working “with all your heart” can be applied to our relationships, responsibilities, and daily routines.

Whether we are caring for our families, volunteering in our communities, or pursuing personal goals, we are encouraged to do so with enthusiasm and dedication, as unto the Lord.

This mindset fosters a sense of fulfillment and joy, as we recognize that our efforts are not in vain but are part of a larger divine plan.

                Is there any area in your life you struggle to do it with enthusiasm and unto the Lord?

For me, one consistent area was going grocery shopping – this is important way I serve my family – we must have milk in our house.., but I truly felt grumbly about this! This scripture brought a reminder that even in our everyday task we should do them unto the Lord.  To help my attitude – I began to thank him that every time I walk in the store – I thank him that we can buy groceries, that my family can eat, and that I am able – then I look forward to who I will run into and can chat with.  Now, this is not a boast – this is to remind us the Lord commands but he also help us. 

We this mama also has a saying at our house, “don’t half do it”  If we are going to do something let’s do it well.  Now, that saying can come back to bite you a bit if you are not on your game – but I think I need to start reminding my children that this is simply scriptural!

#2  It is for our good and his glory

1 Peter 4:10-11

¹⁰ God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another. ¹¹ Do you have the gift of speaking? Then speak as though God himself were speaking through you. Do you have the gift of helping others? Do it with all the strength and energy that God supplies. Then everything you do will bring glory to God through Jesus Christ. All glory and power to him forever and ever! Amen.

Matthew 5:16-

¹⁶ In the same way, let your good deeds shine out for all to see, so that everyone will praise your heavenly Father.

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Ephesians 2:10

¹⁰ For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.

The phrase “created in Christ Jesus for good works” reminds us of the transformative power of being united with Christ. When we accept Jesus into our lives, we become a new creation. Our old selves are passed away, and we are reborn with purpose and capability to do good works.

These good works are not just ordinary tasks; they are divinely assigned responsibilities that reflect God’s character and love in the world.

Some other Benefits of Serving – AS we pour out we receive –

1. Serving allows us to discover and develop our spiritual gifts.

1 Corinthians 12 compares the church to a human body. Just like our bodies are made of many parts serving specific functions, the church is made up of people with different skills and abilities. Alone these pieces aren’t very useful, but together we create something beautiful.

2. Serving allows us to experience miracles.

3. Serving allows us to experience the joy and peace that comes from obedience.

4. Serving helps us to be more like Jesus.

We shift our focus off of ourselves onto others through serving. We begin to see others as Jesus sees them. And we see Jesus IN others (Matthew 25:40).  

5. Serving surrounds us with other Christians who can help us follow Jesus.

When we’re working side by side with other people, a bond inevitably forms. This was part of God’s plan for how the church is supposed to work.

                I asked some questions about serving to several of my friends and family (friends respond better – just saying) One friend expressed the importance of the relationships she has made while serving. 

Some of the greatest moments I remember in ministry– is serving alongside others.  There is something about serving together that tears down walls and creates relationships – God desires this for us.

6. Serving increases our faith.

As we move out of our comfort zones, God increases our faith by revealing new potential — in ourselves and in His Church.

 When we see what He can do when His power is at work within us, we begin looking for the doors He’s opening rather than pushing our way through the one’s He’s closed (Ephesians 3:20).   

7. Serving allows us to experience God’s presence in new ways.

8. Serving is good for your soul.

Studies have shown that volunteering is so good for the mind and body that it can ease symptoms of stress and depression. Tapping into our gifts and passions builds self-confidence, energy, and strength.  Serving others can also be the best distraction from our own worries.  

We make all sorts of rational explanations for not serving:

I don’t have time.

I don’t know what I would do.

I don’t have any special skills to contribute. (remember those tools I showed you at the beginning for the service – just be willing)

They don’t need me.

But the reality is the Lord doesn’t call the equipped; He equips the called.

God used men and women with similar doubts to change the course of history.

 Moses didn’t think he was a leader or speaker, but God worked through Moses to bring Israel out of slavery.

 David was the youngest (and therefore most insignificant) of all his brothers, but God worked through David to defeat a giant and eventually made him a king.

 Paul used to kill Christians before he met Jesus, but he went on to become one of the most highly-regarded and prolific writers/church planters in history.

God doesn’t just want to work through you; He wants to work in you.

                                                Now that my friends is for our good! And excitedly for His glory!

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#3  Jesus served – Jesus did it!  This again is our greatest why!

We see Jesus throughout his earthly ministry healing the sick, feeding the hungry, serving in his every step.

But in His very last hours we see a profound example of how Jesus loves and wants us to do the same.

Let’s take a look at John 13:1-17 on the screen

                We have just seen Jesus with His disciples at the last meal before his arrest

                He knew the hour had come- His public ministry was over. Within the next 24 hours

                He would hang on the cross to give us life – what do we find him doing?

                Loving his disciples to the very end by serving them.  (If it where me…)

                He spends this last several hours with the ones closest too him – he had been serving them all along the journey and now in these last moments he serves them in a way that was astonishing to them

                See in this culture – foot washing was left for the lowest of servants.  It was required because they wore sandals and let’s just say the streets were less than sanitary.

They would gather in very close proximity, at table the height of a coffee table and sit together reclining on the floor to have this meal.

The meal had started, Jesus got up to wash the disciples feet (made me question – do I allow for interruption?)

He took off and laid aside his garment, girded himself with a towel ( a tool of a servant – though still holding all authority and knowledge) and changed His posture to serve.

                What do I need to take off or lay aside this morning?

Then there’s Peter… you will never wash my feet. 

                                                Wash my whole body.

                                                Jesus is saying don’t miss what I have for you.  (being served/receiving)

                                Lets not miss this – Jesus knew that Peter would deny him – he knew the betrayal – the hurt.  And he knew the need for forgiveness and restoration.

We see the most beautiful example of Jesus taking on a tool we all need to carry.

He took off his cloak – signifying humility and willingness to serve – he lowered himself and took on the towel.

He girds (put around you to prepare for work) himself, kneels, and does the job of the lowest servant –– how does that speak to our hearts this morning.

So Angela, are you telling me that we should start carrying a pitcher and basin and start washing feet?

Not exactly!

Though some churches practice foot washing as a sacrament, today lets look at the tools he wants to equip us with

I brought some of the tools Jesus wants us to put in ours…  (GET TOWELS FROM BAG)

Jesus is saying to serve me you must ….

take on the towel of love

                                                                                                Take on the towel of humility

                                                                                                Take on the towel of obedience.

And gird yourself FOR service…

This will look incredible different for each of us but it may be …

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                These tools will serve you and will allow you to LIVE AND share the greatest love story ever told.

Though I think the greatest starting place for service is in our homes (most needed) – and we are to serve wherever we find ourselves we have practical ways to serve alongside one another right here.  To extend Jesus’ ministry right here in the church. 

This is not a ploy to just get some volunteer opportunities filled – this is a way for you to add this tool to your belt.

There are two ways to help you connect and explore ways to serve right here in your church community – you were given a paper on the way in  and there is a qr code on the screen. It doesn’t get easier than today.

You were also handed a small washcloth on your way in– reminding us of the command Jesus gave us in John 14:13.    I need reminders around me.  I’m asking you to put this somewhere in your home to remind you of the gift of serving and to prompt you seek the Lord in how you should serve.  Let this serve as our daily question

                  Will I put on the towel today?

                 Is there someone’s feet I need to wash?

As we close the service, I would encourage you to pray with me – asking God if there are areas you are called to serve that you have been avoiding, are there moments and places you need to YEILD and say here I am Lord? I have been given a glimpse of the why :

we are invited,

it is for our good and his glory,

 and Jesus did it –

what now? Will you pray…I am available Lord?

Lets pray.

• LAST WEEK STARTED A SERIES EVERY DAY FAITH
• DAILY TOOLS TO HELP US IN OUR FAITH JOURNEY
• TWO WEEKS AGO EASTER- NOW WHAT?
• LAST WEEK WE CELEBRATED BAPTISM
• FIRST SERVICE OPENED SERIES TOOL BOX
• SCREW DRIVER AND HAMMER- MOST POPULAR

I ASKED THE QUESTION: ARE YOU TIRED OF PRAYING THE SAME BORING- LAME- POWERLESS PRAYERS?

GOD BLESS MY FOOD- WATCH OVER US AS WE TRAVEL

WE KNOW PRAYER IS IMPORTANT- JESUS MODELED IT

• JESUS GAVE US WORDS TO PRAY
• ONLY THING DISCIPLES ASKED HIM TO TEACH THEM
• EARLY CHURCH STARTED BECAUSE PEOPLE PRAYED
• MY HOUSE WILL BE CALLED HOUSE OF PRAYER
• NOT WORSHIP/FELLOWSHIP/PREACHING
• JESUS PRAYS FOR PETER- HE PRAYS FOR YOU

SLIDE 5: BIBLE STATISTICS UNITED STATES

• 50 BIBLES SOLD EVERY MINUTE
• 72,000 SOLD DAILY
• 26 MILLION SOLD EACH YEAR

JUST IN OUR COUNTRY.

GIDEONS ALONE HAVE DISTRIBUTED 1.6 BILLION COPIES OF GODS WORDS IN MORE THAN 190 COUNTRIES (100 YRS)

SLIDE 6: SCRIPTURE 2 TIMOTHY 3:14

  14. BUT AS FOR YOU, CONTINUE IN WHAT YOU HAVE LEARNED AND HAVE BECOME CONVINCED OF, BECAUSE YOU KNOW THOSE FROM WHO YOU LEARNED IT,

SLIDE 7: SCRIPTURE 2 TIMOTHY 3:15

  15. AND HOW FROM INFANCY YOU HAVE KNOWN THE HOLY SCRIPTURES, WHICH ARE ABLE TO MAKE YOU WISE FOR SALVATION THROUGH FAITH IN CHRIST JESUS.

SLIDE 8: SCRIPTURE 2 TIMOTHY 3:16

  16. ALL SCRIPTURE IS GOD-BREATHED AND IS USEFUL FOR TEACHING, REBUKING, CORRECTING AND TRAINIG IN RIGHTEOUSNESS.

SO WHY DON’T PEOPLE READ THEIR BIBLE MORE?

1.IT MAKES US UNCOMFORTABLE

2. ITS TOO HARD   3. WE ARE UNDISCIPLINED

4. WE THINK ITS STALE   5. LACK TIME

6. WHERE TO START ?    7. LACK MOTIVATION

THE CENTER FOR BIBLE ENGAGEMENT

STATUTES.   COMMANDS.  LAWS.   WORDS.    PRECEPTS

INSTRUCTIONS. 

FINDINGS

• FEELING LONLEY DROPS 30%
• ANGER ISSUES DROP 32 %
• BITTERNESS IN RELATIONSHIPS DROPS 40%

• ALCOHOLISM DROPS 57 %
• SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE DROPS 68 %
• FEELING SPIRITUALLY STAGNANT DROPS 60%

• 40 % MORE LIKLEY TO MEMORIZE SCRIPTURE
• 59 % LESS LIKELY TO VIEW PORN
• 38 % LESS LIKELY TO STRUGGLE W/ LONELINESS

• SHARING YOUR FAITH JUMPS 200 %
• DISCIPLING OTHERS JUMPS 230 %

Job said, “I have treasured the words of his mouth more than my daily bread” (Job 23:12). Is the Bible this important to you?

DEUTERONOMY 6:4-9

⁴ Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. ⁵ Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. ⁶ These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. ⁷ Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. ⁸ Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. ⁹ Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.

THIS IS HOW SERIOUS THE HEBREWS ARE

 DEVOUT HEBREW

• TOOK LITERALLY BIND ON THE ARM
• BIND ON THE FOREHEAD

PUT THEM ON THE DOOR FRAME

• MEZUZAH

 JANETTE AND BRIAN

• WRITING SCRIPTURE ON THE FRAME OF HOUSE
• PEOPLE JOINED THEM WRITING GODS WORD ALL OVER THE HOUSE

MATTHEW 22:29

  29. “JESUS REPLIED, YOUR MISTAKE IS THAT YOU DON’T KNOW THE SCRIPTURES AND YOU DON’T KNOW THE POWER OF GOD.”

• JESUS IS RESPONDING TO RELIGIOUS LEADERS
• THEY ARE TESTING HIM ON SCRIPTURE

MATTHEW 4:1

1. THEN JESUS WAS LED BY THE SPIRIT INTO THE WILDERNESS TO BE TEMPTED BY THE DEVIL. AFTER FASTING FORTY DAYS AND FORTY NIGHTS, HE WAS HUNGRY.

WHEN IS THE LAST MEAL YOU ATE?

 MATTHEW 4:3-4

THE TEMPTER CAME TO HIM AND SAID, “IF YOU ARE THE SON OF GOD, TELL THESE STONES TO BECOME BREAD. JESUS ANSWERED, “IT IS WRITTEN; MAN SHALL NOT LIVE ON BREAD ALONE, BUT ON EVERY WORD THAT COMES FROM THE MOUTH OF GOD.”

IMAGE OF A DOOR

• PERHAPS YOU HAVE A DOOR LIKE THIS ?
• SPECIFIC FRAMES CREATED TO SEND A MESSAGE.

• CROSS IS AT THE TOP
• THE OPEN BIBLE IS AT THE BOTTOM OF THE DOOR

 CAPITOL ONE GUYS COMMERCIAL

 ATOMIC HABITS BOOK

• BOOK WRITTEN BY A FORMER BASEBALL PLAYER
• HARD LOOK AT TINY HABITS THAT CHANGE
• THEY MAKE HUGE IMPACT ON OUR LIVES
• BUSINESS OWNER/LEADER TROUBLED $
• DECIDED TO TRY SOMETHING

• THERE IS SO MUCH NOISE- VYING FOR OUR EARS
• CAN WE QUOTE IT- USE IT-MEDITATE ON IT

MATTHEW 6:33

   33. “SEEK THE KINMGDOM OF GOD ABOVE ALL ELSE, AND LIVE RIGHTEOUSLY, AND HE WILL GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU NEED.” (NOT WANT)

TOOLS:

PRAYER– PRAYER JOURNALS

BIBLE STUDY NOT JUST RANDOM READ

• APPS
• BIBLES HERE TODAY

PSALM 119

“YOUR WORD IS A LAMP UNTO MY FEET AND A LIGHT UNTO MY PATH”

WHEN I FEEL AFRAID

THINK I’VE LOST MY WAY

STILL YOURE THERE RIGHT BESIDE ME

AND NOTHING WILL I FEAR

AS LONG AS YOU ARE NEAR

PLEASE BE NEAR ME TO THE END

• What does it look like for someone to study the Scriptures, literally every day?
• How do you personally incorporate the Scriptures into your life each day? How are you teaching your children to do the same?
• Talk about the various tools you use to read and understand Scripture.
• Talk about what you do when you come to a text that isn’t clear.
• How much time in bible study each day is “enough”?